Which Stone Do You Need: The Guide to Know the Best Crystal for You

Which Stone Do You Need: The Guide to Know the Best Crystal for You

This article is for you if you want to know
• The two most effective methods to find out which Crystal or Stone is the best one for you.

• The accurate approach to Chrystal Healing.
• The real face of blocks.
• What to do as you found your crystal.

>>This article is not for you if you're looking for a fast answers about which crystals to pick. Working with energy is a delicate job and you are a unique being in this Universe; these demand love that only comes with time and dedication.

When you approach to identifying the Stone or Crystal you need in life, and you look for the finest way to get there, you might stumble upon different guides and methods, and each of them carries a different story.


Some of them say that you have to listen to your gut. Others suggest knowing the metaphysical properties, or the chemical composition, and so on. It's all so confusing!


With this article, my purpose is to bring clarity on how to determine the best crystal for you, enabling you to avoid aimlessly navigating from site to site and finally enjoy your experience with crystals and stones.

In accordance with the most recent tests and research in the Bioenergy field, the frequency of crystals emanates from factors such as their color, chemical composition, shape, crystalline structure, and density. 

That's why relying solely on one or just a few of these characteristics might lead us astray. It's crucial to recognize the overall information that manifests in the form of energy from different aspects of the crystal. In the following sections of this article, I'll show you how.

Are you ready? Let's dive in!


Everything starts from you

Before seeking help, consider that your body may have created the imbalance or block to protect you during or after a trauma, allowing you to persevere.

Every block (or imbalance) is the result of an act of love that your body preformed to keep you safe.

If you believe, while observing your blocks, that you are wrong or not good enough, and that's why discomfort, illness, or disorder has emerged, you are on the wrong path.

This knowledge isn't just something I've experienced; it's what scientists, psychologists, and psychiatrists have discovered from the '80s until today.

The truth is that every symptom, whether emotional, energetic, or physical, is the energetic block communicating with you; you are here as a self-listener.

Honor your blocks and discomforts; allow them to be seen and heard. It's the first step in every holistic approach to healing, including crystal healing. Pain and discomfort are the fuel for awakening.

Sickness, illness, stress, and discomfort provide the wisest information we can use to grow and evolve.

Please take a moment to hold space to honor and welcome your pain and struggle. They bring the golden seed to make your sacred tree flourish. Even if you don't know how to work with them now, they will reveal the real magnificent you.

The Wisdom of Blocks

Now that you perceive blocks and imbalance for what they truly are, you understand that the remedy is delivered through the uncomfortable state in which you find yourself.

Many seek quick and effortless solutions, and the allure of offering miraculous remedies is a significant temptation for therapists and many of us.

Nevertheless, I am steadfast in my belief that true healing emanates from responsibility and commitment. Anything else falls into the realm of 'the universe of pills,' involving denial and repression. It doesn't mean that in some cases they can be necessary, but if you're reading this, I presume you're seeking something different.

Healing requires exploration, active observation, compassion and patience. You are the sole explorer capable of discovering and learning from your own inner landscape. There are no shortcuts or easy answers.

As a self-explorer myself and guide for others, I can offer you the tools that empower you to take accountability and liberate yourself by joining the journey. Yet, I cannot dictate what you should do within yourself.

Freedom is integral to healing—there's no healing without it.

So as we step into the second stage of this guide I invite you to always ask yourself questions along your journey, and don't take anything for grated. You are the scientist of yourself. 


The inner job

Ask yourself:

What do I need to make the next step in life?

Which is the main thing that holds me back right now? 

They are profound and challenging questions. Often, we find ourselves trapped in limitations, but identifying them poses another challenge!

Take your time to delve deeper and respond to these questions introspectively, searching for the source of what constrains your expression, your voice, and your potential.

You are not obligated to disclose your answers to anyone. No one can judge you for them. Therefore, be honest, as failing to do so only sabotages yourself.

The hindrance may stem from an old resentment, untransformed anger, or even rejection from your parents or family. Unclear blocks often originate from events so far in the past or are rooted in such painful experiences that they are challenging to discern. You don't need to pinpoint the specific episode causing the block but rather identify the general field.

When you feel prepared, refer to the diagram below and locate the answer within one or more Chakras.
Note that each energetic center disperses its energy (knowledge) in both back and front directions; make sure to identify which of the two directions might be blocked for you.

Note: Make sure to figure out the SOURCE of your block, NOT only considering in which area the symptom shows up physically. 

EXAMPLE: If we want to be more confident, spontaneous, and charismatic with other people, you should work on the Solar Plexus Chakra FRONT (what you bring to the world) only if you think you deserve to be respected. If not, working on this area doesn't work or can create a new block.
Instead, if you think you need to develop your own self-esteem, meaning raise the opinion you have of yourself, you should work on Solar Chakra BACK(what you think about yourself).

That's because your emotional body can't deliver the value of "self-esteem" if you have not integrated it into your believing system. 

Which Stone Do You Need: The Guide to Know the Best Crystal for You

The primary challenge in consulting this graphic might lie in identifying just a few blocked areas.

For many of us, it may seem like every one of our chakras is blocked. If that's the case for you, it's absolutely fine because each energetic center is interconnected with the others, and every imbalance reflects another one.

So, if you find yourself in this position, don't worry. You're not weird or bad. You're simply more aware of your limitations at the moment, and this is an excellent starting point!

During this phase, try to pinpoint no more than three areas you should work on by identifying the priorities.

Working with crystals is a journey.


Verify the Crystal you had found

After identifying no more than three Chakras that are blocked in your energetic system, you also know the crystals that work to activate these areas because you see them mentioned in the graphic.
However, you'll work with one crystal per area, so which one you should choose?


The best tool to verify which crystal is right for you is your body.
To apply this method you need to be able to sense the frequency and energy of crystals, if not, you can go with the second method. 

Take the stone in your hand and connect your energy to it.
• If you feel a sense of relief or liberation in some areas of your body, that's the stone you should work with daily!

• If you feel some sense of restriction or disgusting or that you're uncomfortable in some way, that is not the crystal that facilitates the integration of your blocks.


Please note that this approach has nothing to do with "choosing the stone that attracts your eye". You need to feel the vibrations of the stone. Seeing with your physical eyes only is not enough and sometimes can lead you to the wrong path. 


If you're not familiar with sensing the energy of stones and crystals already - which is something everyone of us can activate, you don't need to be a "guru" or a super sensitive person - here's how to proceed:

• first step: find someone you love and trust in the crystal healing world. It can be a therapist, a teacher or an expert. Trust your gut to feel if this person is genuine and if you love and trust her/his voice.

• second step: consult the information he/she published - as books, blog posts or videos - that are specific about the stones you are interested in. This information is typically the crystal's metaphysical properties or the energetic information that crystals deliver. 
If you do not find anything specific, reach them directly, asking for the properties of the crystals you're investigating on.

Having an accountable and reliable reference means avoiding looking for crystals properties online and letting the first sites that pop out lead your energetic work for the months that will follow.

• third step: choose the crystals that spread a message you feel resonating with you most. Then, wear one crystal per chakra for at least one month, observing what changes along the way.

you cannot sense the ENERGY OF CRYSTALS?

If you're new in the world of Crystals Healing, or you can't sense the energy of Crystals even if you've been passionate about them for years, you have two options: 


There's nothing "magic" or wired in that. You just need to unlock your innate potential to feel subtle energy. Everyone can do it because each of us is made of energy, so sensing energy is something that belongs to our physical biology.

Go there to start >>


Crystal healing


You can find a serious therapist physically close to you or someone online. The key is that you trust her or him. I suggest you follow her/him online for a while so you can feel if his/her worlds and energy are clear and genuine.

Then, you can ask for a private consultation. That way you're sure to work in the right direction without creating new blocks or intensifying the ones you already hold.


When you find out the Crystal (or more than one) that vibes to support you, working with it all day long, on day to day basis, is the best way to get support from it.

Consciously wearing your crystal as a jewel for one month at least is the best, way to fully experience its frequency.

Anyway, for how much you should work with these crystals is something personal because everyone has different needs and a unique way to vibe in this world.
How we vibe, meaning our frequency, is actually the thing that makes us so unique and irreplaceable, so there are no "protocol" answers.

Having your Crystal ever-handed, close to your skin as soon as possible, allow your energetic body to integrate the message of it, encouraging alignment and balance of the whole system.

That's why working with the right frequency (crystal) is so crucial; if we're working with the wrong frequency, we're not supporting expansion, potentially fostering unbalancing.

Hope this article adds a positive value to your crystal healing journey clarifying some doubts and helping to find balance and harmony in your life.
As always, don't hesitate to ask questions or share your notes here below; they'll be extremely helpful for everyone who reads this article.


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Thank you so much for spending your time with me, have a wonderful and grateful rest of your day.

All Love,

BIBLIOGRAPHY: Anatomia della Guarigione by Francesca Poli, Sincronicity by Massimo Teodorani, La Voie des Pierres et des Cristaux by Regina Martino.

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  • Francesca Mancini: November 17, 2018

    Hi Gerry,
    if you’re at the beginning of your crystal journey I recommend Judy Hall, Katrina Raphaell and Regina Martino.
    About your ring, feel free to browse on the store or book your crystal consultation at this page:

  • Gerry Martin: November 16, 2018

    Would like to buy a book on healing stones . would like a ring for my little finger please help

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