Posted on October 07 2018
Having the courage to be yourself expressing your truth with authenticity is still one of the main challenges of our time.
Even if the modern culture seems to suggest to "be yourself," or to "be authentic," this is not easy because it means listening to our core without fear, and it has nothing to do with comparing yourself to others to look different.
Expressing yourself has nothing to do with saying everything that comes to mind or doing bizarre things to amaze others neither.
So, what does expressing yourself with authenticity actually means?
It's the ability to communicate reclaiming your truth with compassion and respect for others.
The tone we use and also silences are crucial to allow our energy to flow without hurting others.
At one side, we have our emotions and what we feel (irrational). At the other side, we have how the mind react to them (rational). Sometimes rational circumstances lead the mind to use fear to block emotions inside the body.
So, they find rescue in physical tissues, creating muscle tension, lack of energy, digestive disorder just to mention the most common effects.
That's why learning how emotions flow through our body and how we can let them free maintaining balance and respecting other people is fundamental to overall well being.
Knowing your fear
The first step when you deal with your fear of Expression is facing it.
Understanding and identifying which feeling you can't explain (or you can't confess) and why it came to you is the first step to control how you react to it.
You should identify exactly the reason that holds you back from expressing yourself, by identifying your fear within a few seconds. Here below you find two types of fears of Expression, you just have to see which one is more related with your own experience.
Before diving in making sure to set your spirit positively and proactively:
• Don't judge yourself thinking "you're wrong or wired" while you'll read the upcoming text. Everyone face these fears every day, multiple time per day, you're not alone.
• You don't have to combat against your feeling. Instead, you need to learn from them and consciously choose how to use them to reach your purposes.
So during the upcoming stage, please, don't lead your thoughts to rational directions, just feel what your body feels. If your heart has a little jump reading a specific text, then, probably there's something related with your fear in it.
• Training your mind to open the cage embracing the fate and consciously accept unexpected things that can happen and you can't control is the first thing to do.
Types of fears related to Expression & Communication
Fear of failure and being criticized
A very common fear is that will fail to express ourselves because we're not good enough in something.
May we'll make silly mistakes or we'll not be able to influence others. In our mind, this could happen because we're weird. Then, we'll be criticized losing social position.
Even if the modern culture says "be yourself!" we all know that there is a "bad" and a "cool" way to be yourself.
So we all want to be accepted by other people and here's where we hide what we are, trying to shape how we look, what we do and say accordingly with the behavior and look of the majority.
fear of loss
What we earn in life is often the result of time and hard work. This includes tangible things, like car or home, and intangible things such as relationships.
The thought of losing what we have is often fearful, especially when the process of attachment precedes the loss.
We use to unconsciously connect people (and things) to our identity, making them an extension of ourselves. We identify us with what we have, our job, husband or friends for example.
Losing them means losing ourselves.
This is why the thought of losing family, job or friends is so scary, so we modify our behavior to maintain them in our lives.
How to realease your fear of expression
feeling the fear
There are two principal places where emotions become fears. They're the two area of our body related to consciousness transformation: The Solar Plexus and Throat Chakra.
To know where your fear is located identifying where the flowing of its energy is blocked make sure to take a few seconds without distractions following these simple steps:
• Call into your mind the fear you wanna overcome by thinking about the situation or circumstances that create this feeling in you.
• After a few seconds, you should feel a physical tension or even pain in a specific area of your body.
The Solar Plexus Chakra
between the stomach & gut
When the tension is located between the stomach and gut, you should work to open the Solar Plexus Chakra and allow this energy to flow up as its nature is.
You know the discomfort that fear brings and you're conscious about it, even if you can't explain clearly why you feel it and what it actually is.
May you prefer to avoid to talk about what you feel because diving deeper into that is too hard.
You have illuminate that room of your Temple, however you procrastinate fearing the presence you could find there.
If so, you just need to face that momentum, turn the light on understanding and accepting your emotions with compassion and love because they're part of your own mysterious life.
Mind that blocks and fears are actually gifts with imploding energy. We just have to reverse the direction of the energy to allow them to show us their inner potential and reveal their real identity as gifts.
When you hide your emotions for too long you could suffer from chronic fatigue, stomach issues, muscle tensions and hypertension.
Daily cure strategies
• energetic physical exercise like martial arts, running
• meditation on acceptance
• psychotherapy about control anger, encourage autonomy, building a strong ego.
Best Crystals to wear
Restoring the enjoyment of life, Sunstone inspires self-love and self-nourishment in order to better support others.
It encourages independence and originality, and it's extremely supportive in unveiling talents, attracts fame and unexpected prosperity.
Citrine is an excellent crystal for relationships.
It helps to soften family or group problems promoting tangible common solutions. Citrine inspires creativity and self-expression reducing the sensitivity to judgment and it's excellent for overcoming deep sadness and apathy.
Heliodor helps to develop self-confidence, strength, hope, faith, and vitality assisting in promoting evolution and change achieving new purposes and goals.
Heliodor defenders against dark energies of any sort, psychological and emotional manipulation and unfriendly ghosts.
It's a stone of creativity and intention and it's a strong support to manifest abundance and prosperity. It ignites high energy in spiritual and physical body boosting faith and optimism increasing confidence and pride without inflating the ego.
Pyrite guards against criticism and manipulation, lending the power to react without becoming angry or upset by shifting the direction of the energy.
Pyrite supports creativity stirring the qualities of ambition, commitment, and perseverance in art, architecture, mathematics, science, and all disciplines that recognize the perfection and harmonious beauty of nature and the universe.
The throat Chakra
Neck & throat
Instead, if you feel a sort of tension on your neck, you probably need to open the Throat Chakra letting your clear point of view free.
You probably don't need to investigate what you feel and why because you already know all these things. Your point of view is clear inside of yourself and you can't wait to talk about it. However, may you need to find the necessary calm and balance to wisely share your perspective maintaining peace of mind and serenity.
When you keep your emotions for too long here's how they can transform their nature:
• voice, neck and ears disorder
• maxillary tension
Daily cure strategies
• sing (real songs, invented ones or sounds)
• tell stories
• automatic writer
• let creativity free without a specific intent
• practice silent
• speak aloud
BEST CRYSTALS TO WEAR
Aquamarine helps overcome the fear of speaking infusing a sense of relaxing sharing, wisdom, and feelings, supporting clarity and conviction.
As a stone of natural justice, Aquamarine is a strong support during compromise and negotiation and supporting courage and clear thoughts.
As one of the master in Communication, Chrysocolla support expression, empowerment and teaching.
It emphasizes the power of words and actions encouraging compassion and strength. The serenity of its energy dispel negative energies and allows truth and inner wisdom to be heard.
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