5 Things You Should Immediately Stop Asking to Your Crystals

5 Things You Should Immediately Stop Asking to Your Crystals

Envision achieving one of the main goals of your life; your dream is now a reality.

All the steps you took to arrive at this point unfold one by one in your mind.

It was a lengthy journey marked by time, patience, struggles, and numerous small steps.

Your action map has brought forth this moment of joy and fulfillment.

Every goal is the culmination of a series of relevant actions.

What do I mean by that? Relevant actions encompass both small and large steps that contribute to your transformation.

Why? Because you cannot attain something different from your current state without doing the work.

Every journey towards your purposes and intentions necessitates a shift in frequency because it requires a 'new version' of yourself.

Crystals support you in manifesting your authentic self by encouraging and sustaining the expansion and balance of your own energetic body, specifically the Chakra system.

Pay attention when people claim that crystals attract what you want without mentioning any transformation or commitment from your end.

For example, phrases like, 'Keep a Citrine in your pocket, and you'll attract abundance fast!' are all fluff.

I know I may sound a bit blunt, but I want to clarify that this perspective does not align with my understanding of Crystal Energy.

Crystals don't provide us with the solution or the miracle. The solution, the miracle, is within us.

Choosing to work with crystals is a journey of transformation and self-liberation.

This perspective is essential to enhance our lives, improve our balance, and feel vibrant.

The External is the Reflection of the Inside

Every week, I receive emails from people asking me about the best crystals to 'get their ex back,' 'become popular,' or 'get money fast,' for example.

This is often because:

• We are so focused on the result that we forget the necessary metamorphosis.
• We don't know our unique and real purpose in life because we don't know our authentic needs are. The only way to know our authentic needs is by doing the work.

Praying for "miracles" and taking off yourself from any transformative process generate two types of events:

You cannot maintain your position: If, for some reason, you reach your goals without undergoing any change, you are unable to sustain it simply because it lacks sufficient structure.

• Your frequency decreases, it doesn't expand: Seeking salvation from something or someone other than yourself implies that you do not consider yourself sufficient to manifest the life you are meant for. Consequently, your energetic field reflects these beliefs by diminishing in strength and radiance, fostering blocks and imbalance.

Here are the 5 Things you Should Never Ask to your Crystals:

Change other people thoughts or radically influence their opinion

The most powerful way we can influence others' thoughts and feelings is by sharing our reasons and perspective with utmost clarity.

Let's nurture the skills and energy needed to connect our vibes harmoniously with others.

Entering someone's mind to alter their intentions and actions is neither ethical nor effective. Instead, let's focus on wholesome methods!

Consider this example: If you're on a journey to find a new job, ask yourself lovingly: Why do I encounter challenges in interviews? Perhaps there's room to boost my confidence, refine my self-expression, or develop new skills.

As you find answers to your frustrations, you'll be ready to take compassionate actions, opening up your channels of communication with increased confidence. Embrace imperfections as beautiful gifts and liberate yourself from fear and judgment. 

In this case, if we want to find support in the world of Crystals, Aquamarine, with its nurturing energy, can be a wonderful ally.
On the contrary, if you decide not to actively participate in the transformative process, Aquamarine remains just a stone. Its energy comes alive when you infuse it with your heartfelt intentions, thoughtful actions, and wholehearted commitment.

DRIVE other people actions

Similarly, if we find that we can't shape people's thoughts through Crystal work, we also cannot dictate their actions.

For instance, if you desire to reconcile with a partner, strive to deeply comprehend the reasons for the separation. Encouraging understanding rather than attempting to confine others within our own perspectives is always a more loving approach.

You can't control anything excepts your thoughts, actions, and energies.


Crystals can be wise and nurturing companions; their assistance is most effective when you're ready and want to embrace change.

They aren't a cure; instead, they magnify your vitality and illuminate your path when you open yourself to them, prepared to receive whatever comes.

For instance, if you aim to lose weight, keeping an Eye Tiger Crystal in your pocket can be beneficial, but its power is truly activated when you declare your goal to the Universe by making clearer food choices and opting for stairs over the elevator.

This is where Crystals can genuinely support you in amplifying your intentions and staying focused on your visions. Without this commitment, it's merely an engaging tale without tangible results!

Overnight success

Crystals don't offer a shortcut to success; instead, they serve as a key to enrich your transformation, making it faster and more profound.

According to the National Endowment for Financial Education, 70 percent of lottery winners end up bankrupt because they aren't prepared for that sudden change. In a healthy transformational journey, financial abundance is a natural outcome, not a coincidence.

For instance, if you keep a Citrine in your wallet and happen to experience a significant win, it's simply a stroke of luck. These events have nothing to do with the crystal itself, but rather the unpredictability of life.

Embrace the transformative energy of crystals as companions on your journey, supporting your growth with love and harmony.

Heal mental or physical pathologies

Crystals are not a substitute for medical care. They work best as a complementary therapy alongside the treatment prescribed by your doctor, when necessary.

For example, if you suffer from chronic back pain due to scoliosis or a slipped disc, meditating with Hematite or Selenite can be a wonderful complementary therapy to your exercises, but it cannot replace them.

Pop culture often simplifies everything, seeking quick results with minimal commitment, and the same trend is happening with Crystals. I understand that many people view Crystal Healing differently, and that's why my mission is to provide my best to counter the 'fast food approach' to Crystals.

The truth is, commitments, time, and doubts are essential elements in achieving what we desire in life and becoming our authentic selves. We should honor all our struggles, doubts, and difficulties instead of avoiding them.

Thank you for spending your time on this space, I appreciate it because this is a crucial point to me in Crystal Healing.
As always this is my perspective, so don't hesitate to share your vision on how Crystal Energy can change the way to live your life in the comment below ;)

All Love,



  • Addison Atti: September 28, 2020

    Thanks for the article. I really appreciate it

  • Findingme: May 13, 2020


    First off, I just want to let you know how truly out of character it is for me to write a message in response to something I’ve read but today was something I could not let pass!

    I’ve been a huge fan of crystals for years but it’s only now with articles like this, that I’ve truly gained insight into how I can use them in addition to my transformation process instead of looking to them to be the star of the show when it comes to getting what I want. It’s so funny how the universe truly aligns you in the path of what you need when the timing is right. When I started looking to crystals again, I was using them just like how you see in all the movies. I would pick up a crystal based on what the sign was in front of it thinking, now, my dreams would be answered as though I’ve received some genie from a bottle that was tucked away in my pocket.

    You’re article gave me more perspective on how I can maximize their effect while trusting their process combine with the intention I set.

    I plan on looking back to this as the light if I lose my way along my journey.

  • Francesca Mancini: April 12, 2018

    Hi Tanya, I’m glad my perspective resonates with yours pretty well :) thank you so much for sharing your love <3

  • Tanya: April 10, 2018

    As a fellow Crystal Caretaker and energy worker, I wanted to congratulate you on a well-written and thoughtful article. We have a very similar perspective on crystal healing and working with our crystal friends and this is really great advice for people who are new to crystals or don’t yet understand their own energy connections.

  • Francesca: April 04, 2018

    Hi Edwige^^ thanks for sharing your love sweetheart ^^
    Oh yes absolutely, Crystal Jewels are much more than look or style! They can be one of the guides of your spiritual journey towards healing and growth. Hope to keep to inspire you with Crystals and wise creatures in future :)

  • Edwidge: April 03, 2018

    Love it !!! Thank you for your authenticity, to speak with heart ! Long life to your business. Thanks you to take time to share with us more than your beautiful jewels. Your generosity make them a deeper gift !

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